If there is one thing that I have written many times in many ways on this blog over the years, it is that NOTHING is more important than accepting and loving yourself for who you are – warts and all. I do not know of too many things that can bring one to a state of peace more efficiently than embracing the knowledge that there isn’t anything wrong with who you are and what you want to do with your life [Hurting other people being excluded. I am not the one who judges "right" or "wrong," but their will be consequences for that sort of activity and society, by a majority, has a moral compass that is true enough that it won't be tolerated]. Having written all of that, this blog IS called The Fortress of Potential, so being a “different” person, having the potential and ability to change is likewise important.
I really want to reach beyond the obvious things here: you know, stuff like not smoking, getting some exercise, smiling more, etc. I think most everyone knows the value in making these sorts of behavioral modifications without having to hear about them again and again. What I want to write about, if the words will come, (and hopefully doesn’t take all day), is becoming a completely different person.
I can already feel a struggle beginning with this message; it’s going to be difficult to word, and I’m feeling a bit lazy, so I am resisting what I am being prodded to share. I would rather take a nap – but I am going to forge ahead just the same.
The first step to becoming a totally different person is understanding the first paragraph that I wrote. Don’t set off to be a different person because you think that there is something wrong with who you are RIGHT NOW. You MUST love that person without reservation before you can embark on what I am attempting to describe. You’re fine just like you are. If there are a few things here and there you would like to tweak, go ahead. . . . . man, this is hard to convey. I really need to step-aside and let It flow. Anyway, that’s where you start; knowing that you are as worthwhile and as important as any other human on the planet just as you are.
Next step is a big decision. A CONSCIOUS decision to become a different person. A decision to become a “new” being NOT because there is anything unworthy about the being that you currently are, but because this “new” person intrigues you. It excites you, and you want to experience it. Do you understand the difference in the thinking?
Now, of course, in order to make the decision to which I am referring, you have to know “who” you desire to be – that is, whose shoes to you want to walk some miles in, or maybe even the rest of your life?
This person does not have to physically exist today, (or to have physically existed ever). By that I mean to say that your model can be a fictional character. Sound crazy? Maybe at first.But it is important to understand that becoming a “different person” has to do with changes in the realm of mind, ego, emotions – maybe even the way that you walk and talk. Even fictional characters, (well-developed ones, anyway), have those elements built-in. Your essence, your Spirit, isn’t going to change. All that you are doing is deciding to experience a different, physical character. That’s actually all you are doing right now . . . acting. You’re acting out a character on the grandest stage of them all.
What’s really neat is that the “dressing room” is all around you – along with acting teachers, speech coaches, you name it. People in your neighborhood, public figures, movie characters. It’s like going shopping . . . what do you want to try on today?
What I have written here today is a LOT “heavier” than it may seem at first read. It speaks to the God-breathed ability that each of us posses to create and “be” whoever we desire to be. It is not a decision to be made lightly, it’s not a decision that has to be made at all; you may very well like your character just fine, and that is a beautiful thing.
The idea that is pressing me so hard today, (and for the past several days), is to make sure that people know that they are actors. Not just any actor, but the most in-demand thespian in the world, who can choose any role that he/she wishes to play. Now, assuming that you make the decision to change roles, how do you do it? You do what any great actor would do – study the part, then act it and live it.
Start small, maybe by mirroring the way that your chosen character thinks – establishing their worldview as your own. Then perhaps physical mannerisms, or style of dress. This isn’t some earth-shattering, new revelation. It is has been said many times and ways over the ages: ACT like the person that you most want to be, and you will become that person. You know the quote, (attributed to lots of different people), “we become what we think about.” Or, to use other words, we are our actions, which are driven by our thoughts. Therefore, change your thoughts, which will change your actions, which will lead to you becoming a totally “new” person.
As I wrote, this is not a light message. It is very heavy, and powerful. DON’T decide to become a different person on a whim. It can be very scary, and you could end up meeting with a lot of resistance. Know your motives, and count what the cost may be. Is it worth it? Only you can answer that question.
This is a hard message. I AM NOT suggesting that ANYONE change who they are. I am attempting,in my own feeble way, to pass on an understanding of the incredible power that we each have over our experience of this physical world. It’s like our world is a giant bowl of soup. Everyone is sitting in their chair and eating, tasting, experiencing the soup. Just remember, you are not bound to the chair that you are in – you can get up and move to a new seat and taste the soup from there.
Well, maybe my longest post, and I’m still wondering if I effectively expressed what my Spirit was trying to get through to me. Nevertheless, there it is. I think I’ll take that nap now.
Many Blessings To All…
Rising Hawk
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